“First, what does it mean to win or lose an
argument? There is an unspoken belief in some quarters that the point of an
argument is to gain social status by utterly demolishing your opponent's
position, thus proving yourself the better thinker. That can be fun sometimes,
and if it's really all you want, go for it. But the most
important reason to argue with someone is to change his mind. If you want a
world without fundamentalist religion, you're never going to get there just by
making cutting and incisive critiques of fundamentalism that all your friends
agree sound really smart. You've got to deconvert some actual fundamentalists.
In the absence of changing someone's mind, you can at least get them to see
your point of view. Getting fundamentalists to understand the real
reasons people
find atheism attractive is a nice consolation prize.”
This is
really what we want – right? Changing
minds when possible, and at least clearing up misconceptions about atheists.
Later in the
article, the author says:
“If you believe morality is impossible without God, you
have a strong disincentive to become an atheist. Even after you've realized
which way the evidence points, you'll activate every possible defense mechanism
for your religious beliefs. If all the defense
mechanisms fail, you'll take God on utter faith or just believe
in belief,
rather than surrender to the unbearable position of an immoral universe.
The correct procedure
for dealing with such a person, Eliezer suggests, isn't to show them yet
another reason why God doesn't exist.
They'll just reject it along with all the others. The correct procedure is
to convince them, on a gut level, that morality is possible even in a godless
universe. When disbelief in God is no longer so terrifying, people won't fight
it quite so hard and may even deconvert themselves.”
This resonates with me strongly. It is a strategy of identifying and targeting
root conditions which prevent a successful ‘intervention’ (as Peter Boghossian
likes to call it). Here are a few root
conditions to target:
- Belief that morality
is impossible without god or religion (as mentioned above
- Belief that truth is a
past event (revelation in the Bible) rather than a lifetime pursuit
- Belief that a
meaningful life is impossible without god
- Belief that if there
is no afterlife, this life is worthless
- Belief that
questioning and being skeptical is dangerous
- Belief that people
without a belief in god are unhappy and hopeless
- Fear of death, and not
seeing loved ones again
What are other underlying issues which
prevent believers from even considering that they might be wrong?
How
can we attack and weaken these barriers to reason?
Please share your experiences, insights, and
success stories in the comments below.
Written by J. M. Green